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Saturday’s Stunned Silence
It was a day of stunned silence
After the horrors of the cross.
How could God let this happen?
We were all left at a loss
With no logical explanation
For taking a life so pure.
Injustice was swift and deadly,
That much was for sure.
That day was strangely silent
Birds didn’t sing like other days.
Even flowers drooped their heads in grief
In the tomb his body laid.
Our precious Lord was taken.
Our dearest friend was lost,
Followers left alone in anguish.
It was much too great a cost.
In silence we acknowledged
The things which had taken place,
While our hearts were still left longing
To look again upon Jesus’ face.
In truth He often told us
These things just had to be.
Our Saviour paid the terrible price
For the sins of you and me.
Yes Saturday was sadly silent
Such a solemn grieving day,
But we now know what would happen
At the dawn of the brand new day!
… Just like resurrection morning; we look with anticipation to the time of our Lord’s return.
WHERE’S THE LOVE?
I weep for ALL the people. In reference to the new RFRA (Religious Freedom Restoration Act), our Hoosier Indiana home is under vicious attack! I especially am concerned for our children who are witnessing such nonsense. There are so called adults throwing temper tantrums to gain attention for themselves at the cost of civility, proper respect and the peaceful accord of a loving community at large. There are so many people causing discord and strife while demanding others be more loving. It’s ugliness! It’s divisive, unloving and flat-out wrong!
God’s law (acknowledged to supersede all man-made others)
it’s simple…LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS YOURSELF.
14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Galatians 5:14 (NASB)
It doesn’t say agree with one another or be exactly like one another, but it does say LOVE one another.
Sadly, “Love” is not what I am seeing now, all over the media, with signs of hate and personal attacks on the civic & business leaders who sacrifice their time to serve us. This is not inclusive and loving but divisive and goes against religious freedoms for all. Name-calling, motivation-assigning and group profiling is uncivilized and shameful.
•Please don’t shame yourself or your particular cause or organization. This is not about “us” vs. “them”. This applies to us ALL!
•Please stop spraying the mace of malice in an emotionally charged crowd—people are hurting people with swords of words that cut deeply.
•Please, look at your own heart…the only person’s you can really know…and ask yourself: am I being loving?
•If I were mistaken or misunderstood, how would I want someone to treat me?
What is the right way to behave? Not just for yourself, but in regard to others? Am I open to hearing the others concerns and point of view.
Then do that. Do the next, right thing.
KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW RATHER THAN PRESUME TO KNOW
I cannot know any other persons motives. So I would be foolish to state that “so-and-so is doing this because …”. Yet there are organizational leaders who are doing just that. Some people are loudly declaring that the lawmakers of this state have passed a law that promotes discrimination against people. Yet I don’t read that in the law itself. So who am I to trust: what people say that it says, or what it actually says?
I can’t righteously say that RFRA is an anti-gay law anymore than I can proclaim it is an anti-toddler law. I can only go by what I see. I see a law, which as it’s name says, promotes religious freedom for all people… applied equally to all people is NOT discriminatory.
As I read it; this law protects us from government forcing us to violate our religious convictions (as long as they do not violate established authoritative laws or morals which limit their expression or exercise). I want that freedom for me and I want that for others. Who doesn’t? And why not?
I would not want my Jewish friend to be forced to sell non-kosher food so that the preference (not a “right”) of every ham sandwich eater is not violated.
Does one man’s preferences supersede another person’s strong moral or religious convictions? We are speaking of living in harmony here, right? Then, it seems logical that out of respect and love, one could either choose something else in accord or take their business elsewhere. Why would I want to force anyone to serve me? That’s like coercing someone into telling them you that they really like you and what you are doing when they don’t. Using threats and extorting behaviors; that’s manipulative oppression. How is that respectful or loving?
# What gain is there in making a loud scene within his deli, calling him a discriminatory bigot, or threatening to sue him in order to force him into acting otherwise?
# Is an attack on his personally held convictions while asking him to respect yours not self-defeating?
# Should his menu be repealed because it doesn’t include ham? Or in the same vain, should all restaurants be forced to serve the same items? Goodbye making decision between Italian vs. Chinese atmosphere and cuisine; a burger joint vs. formal top-chef. That might be viewed as discriminatory.
# Is it reasonable to hold a rally publicly declaring that this deli man has some kind of ill-intent toward all ham-eating people?
# Is it right that one proclaim what another person’s intents are when they are declaring something totally different? Who am I going to believe: the person that had the thoughts and intentions or the other who “thinks” they know?
# Is it loving or even wise to inflame emotions against large classes of people, businesses or states who have never even had any experience with you; let alone for you to presume that they will treat you poorly?
# Is it right to boycott an entire state filled with places that would happily sell you your ham sandwich had you just asked them?
JUDGEMENT: Judge for yourself.
At this time I have been grieved to read many remarks from people that classify ALL Christians as unloving or un-Christ-like. These same people do not generally demonstrate a Christ-centered faith but use His name or scripture (often out of context) for self-gain.
Ironically these who decry that other people are unloving have themselves used base language and personal attacks while working to incite strong emotional responses making it look on the surface as though some grievous injustice is occurring.
Emotionally charged reactions based on perception generally insure that a bad problem will get worse. Alternatively, stripping away the emotional perceptions to analyze the truth and carefully considering the other point of view is a much better way to approach a problem to get to a solution. Either we are a part of the problem or we are working to solve the problem.
PRAYERS FOR PEOPLE
I have been praying for our Governor Mike Pence who himself is being persecuted for taking a stand on what he and our state legislators believe is right and in the best interest of the people of Indiana. I pray for public servants, civic leaders, general citizens who are scurrying about as a result of emotionally charged threats against the businesses and livelihood of our communities. I am praying for a particular Jewish friend Annette Siegel Gross who is a well-known PFLAG leader who is passionately voicing valid concerns, but is doing so with personal attacks on our elected leaders in an unflattering if not disrespectful manner. Additionally, I know that God is grieved when those proclaiming to live according to God’s principles treat others with disdain and malice instead of loving consideration. Golden rule here, people. I pray for those who are fighting to gain better standing but are doing so in the wrong way. I hate seeing people rejoice in the fact that this turmoil is causing injury. I have actually read peoples’ statements that they are happy about this turmoil happening at the perfect time to do the most damage via the court of public opinion. Just as people are about to come into our city for the Final Four basketball tournament which will draw further attention to the situation. I pray for ALL of us who call this home. I pray that TRUTH and LOVE win over perception and self-serving agendas.
I am thankful to live in a time and place where freedom of speech and assembly is valued. I also am saddened by some of the disrespect shown in language, signage and threats. As the world is judging how Indiana is based on the images and perceptions that are portrayed through the media, I pray that the power of LOVE brings forth peace and charity that can once again unite us as neighbors willing to live and serve alongside one another to make this place one we can be proud to call home.
NO JUDGEMENT! NO DISCRIMINATION!
God is our judge, not man. Yet, God did not create us as robots. We have a conscience and innate sense of right and wrong. He intends for us to use that. We stand up against what is wrong and take a stand for what is right! True, loving brothers, friends, and concerned citizens will point out error so that correction may prevent or mitigate dire consequences. God’s Word does tell us to use wisdom, discernment, and exercise judgement in both how we act and why.
The person who declares that there is no god, has just made a “judgement”. Even a five year old uses “discrimination” when he decides that he likes ice cream better than cake. Is either the atheist or the five year old deserving of my disrespect because of their personal beliefs or choices? I think not. I still view both of them as a fellow human being; a soul deserving of my regard.
I am judgemental at times. I judge that child abuse is evil. I judge that it is deadly to stand in the middle of I-70 in the middle of rush hour traffic. I judge that choosing to act wrongly will bring about consequences that can be avoided if I act righteously.
I am also discriminatory at times: I chose this pink blouse over the blue one. I prefer the salmon to the steak for dinner. I place my precious china on display while keeping the paper plates in the cupboard. I think that my right to consume alcoholic beverages and my right to drive an automobile with my drivers license are both outweighed by the communities need for me to not drive while impaired.
Yes, I make judgements and I discriminate, so how does that make me evil? The fact that I place my faith in God and His word as a guide in basing those judgements and preferences makes those decisions less about me and more about God. Since I make mistakes and God never does, I believe I do well to live according to His statutes. Still, I may make mistakes in judgement or discrimination? I for one would like someone to point out the error of my ways before they start building a gallows upon which to hang me in ignorance.
Many angry constituents opposed to the RFRA are claiming that there is “NO JUDGEMENT IN LOVE” or “Jesus never Discriminates”. However that is not true according to the totality of God’s Word. In fact it would be extremely unloving and inconsiderate not to judge right from wrong, good from better when it comes to considering our relationships with God or one another. There would be absolutely no justice without judgement, nor any love without forgiveness.
WHO CAN TELL OTHERS WHO THEY CAN LOVE
Now, as far as me telling you who you can and cannot love…that is not my place. I believe every person has the God-given choice to love who they will. Neither should man foolishly try to legislate emotions.
I have many friends and acquaintances that have different sexual orientations or attractions than I do. As their friend they know what I believe and feel and vice versa. On some thing’s we agree, others we do not. But our love for one another is not jeopardized by how I treat them because I treat them the same way I would like to be treated. They don’t go out of their way to make me uncomfortable or disrespected and vice versa. As friends we communicate in genuine love and concern for the other. As friends we sometimes hurt each other and can call each other out on grievances in a kind way. As a neighbor, I CARE about how others treat each other. As a loving friend I do all I can to see to eat that all people are treated with humanity and justice.
ALL of us are human and make mistakes. Rarely (thank God) are the mistakes fatal. Always there is something that can be learned as a result. So many needless mistakes are based on a misunderstanding, acting or speaking out in error.
The wisdom of asking questions to get a better understanding of what doesn’t appear to make sense is something I like to employ in gaining a better understanding of things, people and situations. Therefore, will you kindly help me grow in understanding by telling me what you think about this post?
I just want LOVE for everyone. I want people to STOP hurting each other and dividing our community rather than uniting in purpose of making this a better place for all of us to live. Thanks for being a friend.
Tis the season of the phone scammers and identity thieves. Post-holidays and pre-taxes seems to be the time that the cockroaches and rats crawl out of their cracks and spread out to attack as many unsuspecting people as they can.
Having received my annual uptick of unsolicited calls this week prompts me to share this reminder. DO NOT BECOME A VICTIM OF THEIR SCHEMES.
See if you recognize these:
#1. The caller identifies themselves (usually in accented voice) as being from “Microsoft Windows Support” and say “we are calling today because your computer us sending us error codes indicating that your computer has a virus (or that someone is trying to steal your identity)”. The irony of this one is; if you do follow their instructions that’s exactly what could happen. This is a scam! Don’t do it. Windows will not call you like that! Just hang up!
#2 Health care. A good percentage if the population has some kind of chronic health concern. So these vermin call up and say that they can get you free meters, supplies and equipment or medications because of the new government health care plans. They just need your personal information. No! No! A thousand times no! I even had one fool come right out and ask me to give them my social security number and birthdate! What?! How stupid do you think I am? This scam is identity theft with a bow on it!
#3 Debt Collector. They claim to be from some debt collector. They may even have the name of a company or medical group or hospital that you have used. They claim that you owe some amount of money and that they can take care of that amount right now by phone. They want you to give them either your checking account information to process an electronic draft or your credit card information!! GREEE GREEE GREEE! Listen to those loud alarms going off in your head.
BE SMART. RIGHT FROM THE START
There are people right now who make their living by taking your money. These cockroaches get you to believe they are helping you while all the while they are getting into the cupboard and going straight for the goodies.
They prey upon the fact that people are ignorant. Most people don’t know that our computers are running self-diagnoses quite often and these “codes” that they show you with a right click here and a double click there do not actually mean what they say they do. They are trying to get you to give the commands to your computer that will allow them remote access to your personal computer or device! Once they have you convinced that they will diagnose it for free with “just install this free download” or “click on this link”, you have just invited an army of hungry cockroaches to the feast. And they bring all kinds of worms and viruses with them.
Then the rats are those brazen enough to actually steal your identity. They can convince you that you’ve overlooked a bill that needs to be taken care of right now! Please, please think before you fall for it.
While it is true that most of us have computers, bills and maybe debt and health concerns… It is simply evil to use those cracks as thoroughfares into our personal lives!
SO WHAT DO WE DO TO PROTECT OURSELVES?
👍KEEP A RECORD📝
Time; phone number, who was speaking and what was said.
Many phones have ability to record which I have used with the statement “excuse me for interrupting, but, by law I must inform you that I am recording our conversation. Now will you please repeat that from the beginning? Thank you.”
It’s simply good advice to keep your personal information private. If a legitimate person calls you and says something like those examples above, simply get verification that they are legitimate. How? Ask them their full name and company name including spelling and a phone number where you can call them back. Lol
You can say: “thanks for bringing this to my attention. I need to research how this could have happened. I wasn’t aware of that bill; would you please mail me a copy. (they should the exact date, provider and have your address with any legitimate debt). Just ask them to read the address that your file shows and you will verify. After all THEY called you, remember.
Tell them “I do want to take care of this but must call you back later.” When they say that they will call you instead insist that you call them. Legitimate callers will provide a name, number and extension.
I once had one particularly creepy scammer actually give me a phone number. I always read back number to verify I don’t get wrong number too. When I immediately dialed the number, I spoke with some young lady visiting a condo on vacation!! The dude intentionally gave me a bogus number. The innocent lady said that she appreciated the heads up to be able to handle any future calls like mine.
⚠️ DO NOT GIVE OUT INFORMATION TO THEM ON THE PHONE AT THAT TIME.
No matter how URGENT their claim, or threats of legal action. They legally have to provide written notice.
Learn about the company.
Obtain a copy of their claim.
KNOW who you are speaking with!
You can start by doing a web search of the number. Just enter the number into websites such as CallerCenter.com and Whocallsme.com or just Google it. You may discover several complaints that mirror your own experience.
⚠️ DO NOT PUSH BUTTONS.
The caller or recording may ask you to push a certain number with the promise they won’t call you anymore. Good idea? ⚠️ACK!! What you really just did was verify that if they call your phone number they get a real live person and not a machine.
⚠️ DO NOT PAY ONE PENNY UNTIL YOU HAVE PROOF THAT YOU OWE IT.
Some of these debt collectors are collecting on debts another company has already taken payment for! Pay what you owe, but good luck trying to get back money you’ve overpaid.
If someone thinks to themselves that just paying the $49 that they say I owe is easy to take care of by giving them credit card information, they may find they’ll have a whole lot more problems to deal with in trying to account for a slew of unauthorized charges or their identity being stolen.
⚠️ JUST BE SMART.
Although we do have legitimate dealings by phone with service providers and such. I am trying to help fight the growing amount of victimization by bringing a growing awareness of some of the schemes and ploys that are at work right now.
💡 TURN ON THE LIGHT! Send the vermin scurrying away and tell the exterminators. Turn on the light of truth and awareness of the schemes.
Report your experience of violators of ‘No Call List’ to your state attorney generals office, the better business bureau, FB friends and family. I have even gone so far as to contact Microsoft Windows (the company who was being false represented) via Twitter so they can put their vermin exterminators to work. They don’t take kindly to such activity.
SIMPLE STEPS WE CAN TAKE TO STOP THE CALLS & PROTECT OURSELVES.
▶️ Join the no call list to stop unsolicited phone calls.
▶️ Use your phone and/or phone carrier to block unsolicited callers. Be sure to find out if your carrier charges for this. It at least helps stop the repeat calls until they switch numbers.
▶️ Screen your calls. Just don’t answer calls that your caller ID does not recognize. If it is important they will leave a message and you can call them back. No message? No call back.
▶️ Keep yourself and others safe.
Just like we tell our kids. Don’t give personal information to strangers.
What you say can be used against you if you trust someone who says they are for you but are really just serving themselves.
▶️ Consider enrolling in an identity protection service like Lifelock.
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What experiences or tips can you add?
When it comes to these kinds of things we really can help save each other from a lot of harm.