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		<description><![CDATA[As I watched more Earthquake/Tsunami footage, waited and prayed. I also couldn&#8217;t help but ponder about what the Bible has to say about the nature of Holy God. From the very opening words of Scripture it says &#8220;In the beginning God&#8230;&#8221; !  It serves as a great reminder that as modern or technologically sophisticated we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1082" title="Impact of Prayer copy" src="http://ellen5e.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Impact-of-Prayer-copy-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="161" height="161" /><strong> As I watched more Earthquake/Tsunami footage, waited and prayed. I also couldn&#8217;t help but ponder about what the Bible has to say about the nature of Holy God. From the very opening words of Scripture it says &#8220;In the beginning God&#8230;&#8221; !  It serves as a great reminder that as modern or technologically sophisticated we may believe ourselves to be, man is still the created and God remains the Creator and Sovereign.<br />
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<p><strong>I learned that Japan is frequently esteemed for it&#8217;s disaster readiness. I then contrasted that with the thought that although they may be prepared for an earthquake or other natural disaster are they really ready for their future?</strong></p>
<p><strong>As I spent the entire night without sleep I was fasting in prayer. I thought about how somehow appropriate it was that this was happening during the season of Lent; a time of darkness awaiting the coming light. I drew many analogies to what was happening in Japan and our attempts in my city, state, county and nation for building a Christian Emergency Network. This being a group of people who serve the community during times of distress by not only helping meet their physical needs, but also addressing their spiritual needs. Disasters come and go, but the power of the Gospel is an everlasting deliverance.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I literally had hours to focus on what God was doing in the Midnight Hours!! At this time when I would normally have been asleep for hours and not even known about what was happening on the other side of the world I was having a study in the impact of prayer.</strong></p>
<h4><strong><span style="color: #000000;">WHY? Isn&#8217;t that often the question at such times as this?</span></strong></h4>
<p><strong>Why am I really up now? Do I not trust that God has everything under control? Am I grotesquely &#8220;rubber necking&#8221; at the images playing out in the footage from the other side of the world? I had to really pray &#8220;search my heart oh Lord, and let me know if there is any wicked way in me. Reveal any sin in me so that I may repent and be in good standing with you and with others.&#8221; I know the importance of coming into His presence with a clean heart so that I would not be offensive to Him. I want my time of prayer and seeking God to be one of communion in a sweetness that grows my relationship with Him as I long to learn more about God and how to be transformed into a more accurate image of who He created me to be.</strong></p>
<p><strong>After I addressed these concerns I was better able to focus on reaching out over the world-wide web to people with news as it was happening live. This is a passion of mine; communication through using visual new media in order to take people I may never have met and be able to encourage and equip them. &#8220;Coming alongside&#8221; also meaning &#8220;to comfort&#8221;  the Greek word <em>paraklesis</em> &#8212; the very act of doing life &#8220;together&#8221; is what the church is called to do I believe. The &#8220;Helper&#8221; that Jesus said He was going to send when He went away was the Holy Spirit &#8212; the <em>paraklete</em>. I get so stirred up with the Holy Spirit at such times that it is like this Tsunami Wave crossing the Pacific&#8230;it&#8217;s traveling great distances at high speed (500 &#8211; 700 m.p.h.) and is anticipated to have an impact!</strong></p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS A TSUNAMI?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Being from the land-locked Midwest United States, many of the people I live around haven&#8217;t a clue what a Tsunami is. Therefore, I thought I would use this short little clip to help explain:<a href="http://ellen5e.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/Wave-generation-characteristics-recession-inundation.mov">Wave-generation-characteristics-recession-inundation</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>So a Tsunami is generated by a sudden shock. It is NOT a gigantic wave but is more like a surging high tide in fast motion. Out at sea where the ocean floor is so deep there may be no little elevation of a &#8220;wave&#8221; detectable. However, as the Tsunami wave reaches the shoreline and shallower ocean floor, the elevation of the wave will increase. In fact, as Tsunami is nearing the shore, a sudden very outgoing tide may signal the impending trouble soon to follow. Just as it is often &#8220;darkest before the dawn&#8221;; it is often an extremely fast outgoing low tide tsunami tide feeder right before the incoming high tsunami tide comes surging in.</strong></p>
<p><strong>We saw that principle at work after the New Orleans flooding disaster a few years back. Tremendous loss of life and property, a very dark time for many people and their communities. Then, just as God always does &#8230; the light of goodness comes shining thru. God&#8217;s light doesn&#8217;t just trickle in either, it FLOODS in to overtake the darkness. How does God do this? Through prayer.  Don&#8217;t you see? We are given the awesome honor of being able to join in a concert of prayer! Today, with our connectivity through the internet and mobile devices, more than ever we are able to reach out at any time of day or night and say &#8220;here I am,&#8221; &#8220;I am here with you,&#8221; and &#8220;let&#8217;s pray.&#8221; Isn&#8217;t that exciting?</strong></p>
<p><strong>One of my favorite songs talks refers to the story in the Bible where Jesus halted the raging storm with a word. Some of the lyrics say, &#8221; sometimes he calms the storm, other times he calms the child.&#8221; That is to say, when we go through these &#8220;storms&#8221; of troubles, as I pray for God to &#8220;stop the storm,&#8221; but IF I am praying according to His will, I think I will pray like Jesus did in Gethsemene before He went to die to take on punishment for sins He never committed. . . &#8220;Father please let this cup pass from me, nevertheless, not MY will, but THINE be done.&#8221; </strong></p>
<p><strong>It seems so often that when I have prayed this way for others God either changes their situation to a more acceptable/comfortable one OR God causes such growth through both the person and me that I then see the &#8220;why&#8221; more clearly. When I still don&#8217;t see the &#8220;why&#8221; I firmly stand on &#8220;His ways are higher than my ways&#8230; I am His child always and forever&#8230; He loves me and will only do what is best for me.&#8221; And that goes for any of my brothers and sisters in the Lord as well.</strong></p>
<p><strong>UPDATE:</strong></p>
<p><strong>My friend in Maui reports that they had only about six foot waves and had a photo on his FaceBook page from their hotel where there were a couple of people actually out in the rough surf. That is not smart. In fact, upper California or Oregon had a person or two swept out and lost at sea for such foolish activity. Another analogy for those who will not heed a warning and believe &#8220;it&#8217;s not that bad&#8221; or &#8220;it doesn&#8217;t apply to ME&#8221;.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Santa Barbara, I waited as long as I could before writing this post, but Sue had not called me back so I found out through an online source that the beaches had been closed along the California coast as a precaution. However, they just warned people in the marina, and told swimmers and surfers to remain out of the water until the all-clear is given. </strong></p>
<p><strong>So no harm done to either of the places and people that I was praying fervently for all night long. That is, those that I already knew. However, my prayers are continuing for the people of Japan!! There have been reports of hundreds, but I suspect more like thousands of deaths. Plus I keep going back to the thought of the ripping hearts of the mothers and thier babies separated, unable to communicate. Also the myriads of people who are stuck without transportation walking towards there homes; not knowing if their homes are even there. Remember, it is also very COLD! There are some emergency shelters, but those will be full and stretched in resources. Families are certainly separated, unable to locate one another. Are they safe? God only knows ! </strong></p>
<p><strong>Therefore, I will continue the tsunami wave of prayer for the relief and rescue efforts that are no doubt underway even now. I am exhausted! I have been up for nearly 2 solid nights now. However, since I have posted this, I am going to be able to get to sleep knowing that God is at work in all this. </strong></p>
<p><strong>As mighty as the power of that earthquake was, and as devastating as the resulting waves of destruction across Japan &#8211; God Himself is the ALL-Mighty who never sleeps nor slumbers. It is night now, I must sleep. I will do so with the glorious hope of the approaching light of a brighter tomorrow!</strong></p>
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		<title>Procrastination: What&#8217;s &#8216;pro&#8217; about it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am developing a plan to get a task done. Or is it that I am beginning to start to plan?  The prefix &#8216;pro&#8217; usually means moving forward, bettering, such as in the word progress. Procrastination: what&#8217;s &#8216;pro&#8217; about it? Here is a video that someone sent me a link to. This was the inspiration [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am developing a plan to get a task done. Or is it that I am beginning to start to plan?  The prefix &#8216;pro&#8217; usually means moving forward, bettering, such as in the word progress. Procrastination: what&#8217;s &#8216;pro&#8217; about it?</p>
<p>Here is a video that someone sent me a link to. This was the inspiration for finally writing this blog. Something that I had been meaning to write for some time. LOL</p>
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<p>WHY do I procrastinate.  Why wait to do what I know NEEDS to be done?  I believe there are a few things worth considering here. Perhaps the greatest deterrent to getting something done is FEAR. Fear of failure, or that I will mess things up. Maybe my bent toward perfectionism is screaming at me to &#8220;Wait! You SHOULD do it this way. This other way may be better.&#8221; It&#8217;s the dreaded &#8220;Shoulda, woulda, coulda&#8221;s of an overly creative mind that can bog me down. And, just maybe, it is that FEAR that overrides our desire to just get on with the task at hand.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. I do believe that one shouldn&#8217;t just barge forth without any direction or preparedness. But I see that there is this (sometimes hard to define) borderline between appropriately pausing and taking careful steps to proceed versus stopped and not willing or apparently unable to proceed. A procrastination paralysis produces a productivity nightmare!</p>
<p>The solution? Ha! If I knew that I could be a millionaire as a result of all the motivational speaking engagements that I could do at the conventions full of the myriads of people who are searching for a way out. I would right a book and go on book signing tours.  Well, maybe someday.</p>
<p>Seriously, as I think about it now, I believe one of the biggest solutions to my bouts of procrastination is to face the fact that I am doing it. Call it what it really is. Procrastination in my case is a sin.</p>
<p>Does that seem harsh to you? Well, remember, this is in dealing with my own procrastination. I am going to treat it as a sin because sin is defined as being &#8220;off the mark&#8221;.  I believe that God does call me to be holy as He is holy; to strive to live a righteous and productive life. I also believe that the ONLY way for me to do that is by utilizing the grace of God given to me as a free gift when I became His child. At the moment of my salvation, I was saved. That is past tense. It&#8217;s a done deal.</p>
<p>Now, as I &#8220;seek first the Kingdom of God,&#8221; I am challenged to grow up into a better way of doing things. I daily &#8220;walk by faith&#8221; when I study the Bible and use God&#8217;s Word to transform my old ways of thinking and doing things into a better way. So, you see, if I am applying what I am learning,  I am <em>always</em> growing. There is no room for procrastination there.</p>
<p>As I face this personal sin of procrastination I need to remember to say &#8220;STOP! This is wrong.&#8221;  I must admit that I am choosing to allow my fear of the unknown future to allow me to enter into an old, prideful way of thinking that based my success on what I did and how well I performed.</p>
<p>So, for me, stopping procrastination is getting back on track. Stop what I am doing wrong, learn the correction, and do that. I actively choose to say, &#8220;Lord help me: remind me to place your love before my fears.&#8221;  I need to remember that perfect love casts out fear and practice that.  It does take practice.  That perfect love is available to me (and to you too) in the redeeming work of Jesus Christ who provides a way . . . the ONLY way out of the fear and into the love.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20John+4:18&amp;version=NASB">1 John 4:18</a></strong> (NASB)<br />
There is no <strong>fear</strong> in <strong>love</strong>; but  <strong>perfect</strong> <strong>love</strong> <strong>casts</strong> <strong>out</strong> <strong>fear</strong>, because <strong>fear</strong> involves punishment, and the one who <strong>fear</strong>s is not  <strong>perfect</strong>ed in <strong>love</strong>.</p>
<p>At this moment, I can say I am not procrastinating. How about you?</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 20:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Inspired by a friend&#8217;s question: his exact post is in italics.</p>
<p><em>Open discussion post: What does it mean to you to be <strong>“in love”</strong> with someone?</em></p>
<p><em>Do you use that term, and if so, what&#8217;s the differentiation between </em><em>loving</em> someone and <em>being in love with someone. For the sake of discussion, let&#8217;s presume romantic interest / attraction – so we&#8217;re not just comparing “I love my friends” to “I&#8217;m in love with my spouse”, per se</em>. ================</p>
<p>The &#8220;in love&#8221; phrase leads me to think of the romantically interested in pursuing the relationship with the person even deeper. Feeling like you want to spent every minute just being with them.</p>
<p>However, when it comes to the general defining of loving someone I think there are degrees of love. We who speak English [even foreign accented LOL] are at a distinct disadvantage to other foreign languages like Greek which had at least 3 different words to immediately distinguish which degree of love was meant.</p>
<p>Kindness, friendship, caring, brotherly love, empathetic and sympathetic, nurturing, enticing and even passionate and explosive &#8212; we are dependent on adjectives to help us define our love, are we?</p>
<p>Nevertheless, IMHO &#8220;Love&#8221; at it&#8217;s utmost is wanting to do absolutely anything in my ability and within the realm of my moral beliefs for another person&#8217;s benefit, even if it means that I must sacrifice something of myself in order to bestow that benefit.</p>
<p>My perfect definition may seem like a cop-out to a lot of people, but I truly believe &#8220;God IS Love&#8221;.  And Jesus Christ lived as the perfect example. So the more closely I adhere to the practice of treating others as God does, the more loving I am.  Obviously, that doesn&#8217;t discount that there is an exclusive expression and bonding that I share with my husband that is of a deeper love than any other human. That is a wonderfully unique fulfillment of the &#8220;two shall become one&#8221; kind of love that God tells of in the Scriptures.</p>
<p>When we were &#8220;falling in love&#8221; I think we were infatuated with the feelings of drawing closer together as we saw that the other may truly be the life mate that God intended for us. I believe that we enjoyed being &#8220;in love&#8221; with one another because we were truly thankful for how the very presence of this loved one made us feel &#8212; fulfilled, happy, joyful, &#8220;on cloud nine&#8221;, tingly, understood, attractive, wanted, needed and cared for.</p>
<p>Steve and I recently celebrated twenty-five years of marriage after dating exactly four years prior to our wedding day. I can honestly say that I am still &#8220;in love&#8221; with this wonderful man. We have not always had the warm fuzzies for each other, each and every second of those years. However, I can absolutely say that I am more in love with him today than I was when I first met him!</p>
<p>When first dating we all have our best foot forward with fine clothes and dress, hair and makeup all set. Yet, to me personally, that is an external show that anyone can see. Much deeper love comes from peeling that aside and allowing the other person to enter into our inner selves. The transparency that we give to a loved one draws us closer together. Yet it is this act of opening ourselve up, that exposes us not only to deep hurt, but the opportunity for greater love.  True sharing of ourselves with another.</p>
<p>After we communicate the acknowledgements of shortcomings, the need for and grantings of forgiveness, and meeting and surpassing trials ; all of these hurdles have helped to grow our love even deeper because we cling to the true love that comes from God.</p>
<p>God promised in His Word that ALL things that come into our life would work together for our good. Not that each thing that comes into our life is guaranteed to be a good thing at the time. But, that we could trust that it would work out to be for the better. God promised that He would NEVER leave nor forsake us. He loves us so much that there is absolutely nothing that any person, thing, or power can do to separate me from His love. And that includes any stupid things that I do myself which might mess things up! Hallelujah!</p>
<p>Therefore, my answer to what does it mean to &#8220;be in love,&#8221; is that there is no other person which I would want to be with more, to please more, and to know even more. There is no one else that I can trust with my secrets, shortcomings and fears as much as this person who I am deeply in love with. And finally, when I am not able to be with this loved one in person, I ache with the longing to be with them again.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The question of the week from a friend is &#8220;what does your favorite color say about you?&#8221; My answer is PURPLE. That is my favorite color. A deep royal purple along with a vibrant fuschia are my very favorite colors. I don&#8217;t know what it really says about me. I know that many people feel [...]]]></description>
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The question of the week from a friend is<br />
&#8220;what does your favorite color say about you?&#8221;  My answer is <span style="color: #333399; font-weight: bold;">PURPLE</span>.  That is my favorite color.  A deep royal purple along with a vibrant fuschia are my very favorite colors.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what it really says about me. I know that many people feel that purple is the color of royalty, but I don&#8217;t consider myself to be especially aristocratic or even comfortable with snobbery.</p>
<p>I do think it is interesting that purple is made from the combination of red and blue. Ever since I can remember I have been artistically interested in the way in which colors are made.  Red is a hot color and blue a cool one, so if you mix the two you get this lovely &#8220;I can be both! &#8221;  That is one way of looking at it I suppose.</p>
<p>Purple is found in grapes, beautiful mountain scenery, and the crocus flowers which emerge from the still falling snow to testify to the promise that Spring is not far away. Amathyst is a purple stone that is assigned to my February birth month. A deep purple velvet shows off sparkling jewelry like brilliant stars against a God&#8217;s velvety night sky. Purple can be soothing like lavender or bold like a banner.</p>
<p>Yes, purple is my favorite color and I think it says that I am flexible. Neither the hot-tempered demanding red, or apathetic cold blue&#8230; I am understanding and approachable; a caring, passionate purple : )</p>
<p>How&#8217;s that for an answer JoJo?  If you are reading this, will you please comment on what is your favorite color and what does it say about you?</p>
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		<title>Fire Burning Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 06:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend Gabe voiced his concerns about some of the larger Christian organizations of the nation drawing large crowds with uber-celebrity type people. Also, the idea that maybe too much time was being spent on being a good &#8220;leader&#8221;. This made me think of a worldly, success-based motivation behind the meetings. So I understood Gabe&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a style="font-family: arial;" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/SZZppu7Dz5I/AAAAAAAAAQo/J2rDc6ZLtow/s1600-h/heart-on-fire-screensaver-screenshot.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302541776966635410" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 166px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/SZZppu7Dz5I/AAAAAAAAAQo/J2rDc6ZLtow/s200/heart-on-fire-screensaver-screenshot.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a> <span style="font-family:arial;">My friend Gabe voiced his concerns about some of the larger Christian organizations of the nation drawing large crowds with uber-celebrity type people. Also, the id<span style="font-family:arial;">ea </span>that maybe too much time was being spent on being a good &#8220;leader&#8221;. This made me think of a worldly, success-based motivation behind the meetings. So I understood Gabe&#8217;s frustration.</span> To view Gabe&#8217;s original post, <a href="http://www.gabetaviano.com/technology/the-catalyst-challenge/">click here</a>.  <span style="font-family:arial;">The following is my response:</span></p>
<p>Hmmm&#8230; Gabe Dear&#8230; me thinks that you are noticing the trend of many &#8220;Christian&#8221; organizations, churches included (sadly) that are taking the eyes off of the flame of the candle in an effort to reinvent th<span style="font-family:arial;">e candle stick. What &#8216;style&#8217; is the most attractive,&#8221; becomes more widely discussed than &#8220;do we need to trim the wick,&#8221; or &#8220;is the wind so turbulent as to endanger blowing out the flame?&#8221;</span> <span style="font-family:arial;">Worse yet, in my opinion, is how we can get so caught up in the externals that we &#8216;douse the flame&#8217; with an unloving or cynical attitude toward those that are different from ourselves.</span></p>
<p>Maybe we are not even striking the match, quenching the Spirit when we do not follow the Spirit&#8217;s leading to take the initiative and speak out or otherwise demonstrate God&#8217;s hand at work in the lives of others. It might be too uncomfortable or embarrassing for us to knock on a door or pose a question. What might they thin<span style="font-family:arial;">k of us? That sounds a bit like that old fire-extinguisher &#8216;Pride&#8217; trying to get rid of the flame of Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.</span><br />
<span style="font-family:arial;">&#8220;BU</span><span style="font-family:arial;">RN ON,</span><span style="font-family:arial;">&#8221; I say!  And how can I keep that flame burning brightly if I don&#8217;t keep it stoked with the Word of G</span><span style="font-family:arial;">od!  God&#8217;s Word is my delight&#8230; like honey&#8230;&#8221;YOUR WORD is a lamp to my feet And a light to my path,&#8221; Ps. 119:105,  If I am to let my &#8220;light so shine before men&#8221; from a hilltop and not </span><span style="font-family:arial;">under a basket, I believe that I must daily keep in close communion with God.<br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/SZZqStPeKtI/AAAAAAAAAQw/WMx0m7KiI2g/s1600-h/fire_01.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302542480890014418" style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 136px; height: 110px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/SZZqStPeKtI/AAAAAAAAAQw/WMx0m7KiI2g/s200/fire_01.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a><span style="font-family:arial;">As I draw closer to Him, THEN I will naturally have a testimony flow from that. &#8220;Seek ye first the Kingd</span><span style="font-family:arial;">om</span><span style="font-family:arial;"> of God, THEN all these things will be added. . .&#8221;.</span> <span style="font-family:arial;">What makes me a better &#8216;leader&#8217; is that I train myself to be a better &#8220;follower.&#8221; It goes against our sinful, selfish nature, but, Jesus Himself spoke of the need for us to serve </span><span style="font-family:arial;">others. At the time He was saying it, He was washing His disciples feet.</span> <span style="font-family:arial;">So who am I following?  God or man? Now, THAT is the question.</span></p>
<p>All the fire references that have popped up in this comment are as a result of my having just re-listened to &#8220;Burning Down the House&#8221; by Talking Heads. I associate my passion of following God and being filled with the Holy Spirit with the visual image and analogy of fire.  And that song popped into my head.</p>
<p>So I went and looked at the lyrics.  Some of the words in that song speak to personal agenda getting in the way. . . is my house in order&#8230; am I trying to do things my own way with the latest and greatest techniques.. getting all worked up into a frenzy and then burning my own house down in an inferno.  Thanks, but no thanks.</p>
<p>Give me the comfort of knowing that God&#8217;s fire is at the center of my home, bringing warmth and comfort to my family and friends, as well as any strangers who chose to partake in hospitality.  As long as the fire is contained properly in the firebox beneath the mantle&#8230; as long as I adhere to what I know to be the correct way to handle and care for the fire, I have nothing to fear.  By simply doing what I have learned to be correct I am able to be protected from the winter chill, AND rejoice in sharing that warmth with others.  <a style="font-family: arial;" href="http://www.lyricsfreak.com/t/talking+heads/burning+down+the+house_20135067.html">Link to Burning Down the House Lyrics by Talking Heads</a><br />
<a style="font-family: arial;" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ozc70JPGRMQ">Link to Burning Down the House Song</a></p>
<p>Yes, it is cold outside. But, we have been given a wonderful fire in our home. Would you like to come in and join us?</p>
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		<title>Question of the Week: What&#8217;s your mission?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 04:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new friend of mine is inspiring me to blog more. She has challenged me with a question of the week to take place on Mondays. So here is the first one. &#8220;What is your mission?&#8221; I am going to answer that for myself, sharing it with you on this blog, then ask you to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family:arial;">A new friend of mine is inspiring me to blog more. She has challenged me with a question of the week to take place on Mondays. </span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;">So here is the first one. &#8220;What is your mission?&#8221;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:arial;">I am going to answer that for myself, sharing it with you on this blog, then ask you to either comment with your own answer or giving a link to the answer on your blog.  This exercise should challenge our minds and our motivations, while allowing us to share our life experiences and lessons for the benefit of all.</span><a style="font-family: arial;" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/SZOsb0XqjYI/AAAAAAAAAQg/Y2LKV5jQtcc/s1600-h/Untitled-1.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5301770780259552642" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 177px; height: 168px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/SZOsb0XqjYI/AAAAAAAAAQg/Y2LKV5jQtcc/s200/Untitled-1.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a></p>
<p><span style="font-family:arial;">For me, personally, my &#8220;Mission&#8221; is to become a more Godly woman while sharing the love of God with others. It is a mission of eternal importance.  That translates into my NEW IDENTITY &#8230;  I have an internet and missionary identity of Ellen5e. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:arial;">That&#8217;s it &#8220;Ellen(five)&#8217;E'&#8221;.  Ellen is my birth given name.  The Five &#8216;E&#8217;s are what God has revealed to me as  key to what I am to focus on while using my God-given talents of communication through art, music, photography, word and deed.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:130%;"><br />
</span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;font-size:130%;">The Five E&#8217;s are:</span><br />
<span style="font-family:arial;">1) <span style="color: #6633ff; font-weight: bold;">EXALT </span>God &#8212; worshiping, praising, proclaiming God&#8217;s goodness</span><br />
<span style="font-family:arial;">2) <span style="font-weight: bold; color: #6633ff;">EQUIP </span>the Saints &#8212; study the Word, full armor of God, learn new skills &amp; pass on what I learn </span><br />
<span style="font-family:arial;">3) <span style="font-weight: bold; color: #6633ff;">EDIFY </span>the Body &#8212; help fulfill needs, build up and encourage</span><br />
<span style="font-family:arial;">4) <span style="font-weight: bold; color: #6633ff;">EXAMINE </span>myself &#8212; strive to keep myself in line with God&#8217;s plan</span><br />
<span style="font-family:arial;">5) <span style="font-weight: bold; color: #6633ff;">EVANGELIZE </span>the World &#8212; take the Gospel of Jesus Christ to the World.</span></p>
<p>So I use these five &#8220;E&#8221;s to gauge whether I am making the best use of my time. It&#8217;s sort of like a shortcut to help me remember what I believe are the goals of my earthly mission.</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s my &#8220;mission&#8221;.  Now, would you be kind enough to share your mission with me?  I&#8217;d really enjoy hearing what drives you forward.</p>
<p>That is your mission, should you choose to accept it!  This message may self destruct in ten seconds&#8230; nine&#8230; eight &#8230;.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Dec 2008 01:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is not your typical holiday greeting or a link to an online card. Rather it is a heartfelt &#8220;Happy Thanksgiving&#8221; from our WHOLE family. We are here in St. Robert, Missouri to visit with Michelle for a couple of days. We pray that all of you are enjoying your family gatherings and blessings of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a title="Spencer Family by Ellen5e, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ellenarttellen/3067711012/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3185/3067711012_7dee1f3d09_m.jpg" alt="Spencer Family" width="240" height="180" /></a>This is not your typical holiday greeting or a link to an online card. Rather it is a heartfelt &#8220;Happy Thanksgiving&#8221; from our WHOLE family. We are here in St. Robert, Missouri to visit with Michelle for a couple of days. We pray that all of you are enjoying your family gatherings and blessings of just being together, let alone the bonuses of yummy seasonal feasts : )<br />
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Yes, this was the first and only time she has seen us since July 1st. NO, she did not get to graduate. We just attended the graduation of most of her company because she wanted us to meet a lot of them, the sergeant&#8217;s and other cadre. Plus, we were able to learn a LOT about the daily basic training and see some of the drilling in action.</p>
<p>Michelle was granted an overnight pass off base which is unusual for non-grads, but the Sergeants ALL are very impressed with her. You see, she is top-notch, but cannot graduate until she is healed enough to march and run 15k. The most she was able to do before the hip stress fracture was 8k, and then they shut her down for fear of the fracture breaking on through. She sure knows her stuff and she&#8217;s very good at communicating that to others; civilians or newbies or being quizzed by the brass to explain to other groups.</p>
<p>We are so very PROUD. She is meeting with the adversity of an uncertain future and limitations that she has no control over quite well. She is a bit bothered by the way that medical holdovers on profile (physical limitations) are treated by the rest of the troop as a whole. There ARE fakers and wimps who pretend to be injured, and then there are the legit. We met a young specialist (like corporal) who is gonna have back surgery in January. But it&#8217;s those that are assigned to crutches that basically don&#8217;t USE them that gives everyone a bad rep.</p>
<p>After completing 2 cycles now, she is respected by most everyone. But it is the army way to shun the injured to encourage quick healing and compliance.</p>
<p>So with her off base overnight pass, she was able to come back to the hotel with us, eat PIZZA and then we went out to a movie. &#8220;BOLT&#8221; is a new computer animated movie about a dog that our family wanted to see. It was either that, or the new James Bond movie. The dog in the movie and his relationship with the girl made Michelle really miss being home with Spirit. But it has LOTS of funny lines and happenings in the movie, not to mention the different animation styles. So we thoroughly enjoyed it.</p>
<p>Then, there was the Scrabble game and LOTS of good conversation, and popcorn and junk food. Then she shared the bed with me. Then in the morning, decadence of all time, Krispy Cream Donughts! We&#8217;re talking lemon cream and raspberry jam filled deliciousness. That and milk was it prior to the Family Thanksgiving Dinner Event put on by the company on base at 1pm. That food was delicious. And the best part was that there was no cooking and cleaning on my part. LOL. Seriously, it was surprisingly tasty and there were an abundance of things I never even got to on the side bar.</p>
<p>Turkey, Ham and Beef, Mashed potatoes and gravy, yams, StoveTop OR Bread stuffing, peas and mushrooms, corn, shrimp cocktail, pumpkin pie, cheese cake, rolls, and more and more that we didn&#8217;t even go to look at. They charged only $6.15 for Steve and me, and Michelle just checked in.  A few of the mess hall employees pulled me aside and said things like &#8220;we&#8217;re not supposed to develop close relationships with the privates, but Spencer is special,&#8221; and &#8220;She&#8217;s a good one,&#8221; and &#8220;we all like your daughter a lot around here.&#8221; The one lady (has Michelle&#8217;s number memorized) wanted a photo of all three of us together. And Michelle asked for one with her and the lady together.</p>
<p>There were a few tears shared between us. During graduation, when the graduates are repeating the Soldiers Creed as one, was very emotional for Michelle and I. Knowing that she has to sit there while they move on. I am sure it was even more emotional for her when her first cycle graduated. The ones in which she really bonded as they broke in together.</p>
<p>The best tears/conversations between her and I came when I spoke with her about how proud we are of her. She and I have a SPECIAL bond. Not just parent and child. Not even as a just good friends. She is not just my offspring, but a Sister in Christ. That is an everlasting bond despite physical place, time or even death. There is great security and thanksgiving in that respect.</p>
<p>But the one thing that we share that no one else can understand to the degree in which I do is : the incredible pain that comes along with having your plans dashed by an unexpected, bodily, limitation in which you have NO control. Physical pain is rough enough, but the emotional pain SUCKS!  Now What?</p>
<p>One of the greatest things that I am thankful for in regard to Michelle&#8217;s situation is that she has a very strong faith. She is tough in dealing with the pain. Sucks it up nicely. BUT she is smart about not doing more damage or ignore that a problem really exists. Finding that balance is a hard, but very important skill.</p>
<p><a href="httphttp://flickr.com/photos/ellenarttellen/sets/72157610544043630/">Click this link to view photos</a></p>
<p>Current plans are for Steve and I to drive back out to Ft. Leonard Wood mid-December, spend a  night, see a couple more museum places and then home for the holidays.</p>
<p>Right now, we believe that Michelle will have to report back to Ft. Leonard Wood at the first of the year and continue on&#8217;til they decide what to do next. She is due to get a promotion on January 1st, so that is at least something for her to look forward to.</p>
<p>Christmastime will also include a trip up to cousins and grandparents up in Northern Indiana at some point. Less presents this year due to economy, but more family valuing.</p>
<p>We have many, many things that we are thankful for at this time of year. You, our Dearly Beloved friends and family are chief among those blessings.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 11:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tweeting [posting a message on Twitter] IS conversation that is not just &#8220;for the birds&#8221;. It&#8217;s a way to soar to new heights of involvement in other people&#8217;s lives. &#8220;A little bird told me . . . &#8221; what did you hear, what are you listening to, what interests you and what of value do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong>Tweeting </strong>[posting a message on Twitter]<strong> IS conversation</strong> that is not just &#8220;for the birds&#8221;. It&#8217;s a way to soar to new</span><span id="formatbar_Buttons" style="display: block;"></span><span style="font-size:85%;"> heights of involvement in other people&#8217;s lives.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:85%;">&#8220;A little bird told me . . . &#8221; what did you hear, what are you listening to, what interests you and what of value do you have to offer others?</span></p>
<p>Twitter is a web service that is so easily integrated with other websites, phones and mobile devices that it is quickly becoming the primary way to stay involved.</p>
<p>I believe that Twitter is a valuable tool because it allows me to stay current with what&#8217;s happening right now in other people&#8217;s lives. It is a major method by which I can not only meet new networks and friends, but also build those relationships exponentially as we literally share our lives with one another in a messaging kind of way. These messages are sent in short updates based on the question <strong>&#8220;What are you doing now?&#8221; </strong></p>
<p>However, that doesn&#8217;t mean to say that we need to know that you are blowing your nose or taking out the trash.  It gives me &#8220;up to the minute&#8221; updates on what is happening in peoples lives: I get instant prayer requests, testimony to God&#8217;s provision, thought-provoking opinions and advice, leads and links to other resources, a wide range of TRUE HELP in a time of need. If too much noise comes from a source that I am listening to, I simply will no longer listen.</p>
<p>Just like in real life conversation you choose who you will listen to. &#8220;<strong>Follow&#8221;</strong> is the term that Twitter uses. Just as in a crowded room at a social event, you wouldn&#8217;t care to hear what every single person might have to say, rather you value listening to and talking with those who have something that you value to say or ask. What is interesting to you?</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">How interactive is it??</span> The crowded room is like a group chat in the new media world. A lot of different people are talking at once, so they have to be divided up into smaller groups &#8220;<em>chat rooms</em>&#8221; which generally center around some topic. However to participate in a chat room, or an IM chat for that matter, you must be physically there to take part. The conversation goes on without you and you may simply miss out.</p>
<p>This is a bit different than a <em>message board</em>&#8230; again usually centered around a topic or an <em>email or webpost</em>&#8230; which is posted then may be left for a while before any more activity takes place. Not necessarily at-this-moment, but when you get around to it. The posts are stored somewhere for reference and/or later action.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s look at <strong>Twitter</strong>. Twitter would be like the host of the party coming into the crowded room and saying, there is dancing in the Grand Hall, a buffet on the terrace, and by the way, a red BMW has left its lights on.  If<strong> </strong>you were out of the room when the announcement was made your friend can restate what was said (Twitter keeps some of the more recent tweets), so you can pop in and out of Twitter and just check back. BBL (be back later)<strong> The announcements were made publicly, but a person chooses to act only on those things that are of interest to him.</strong></p>
<p>My tweeting has gotten me into friendships that would have taken me much longer to find (if at all) just out on the streets. Twitter is a communication tool that acts kind of like a family reunion or gathering of friends. You get to know people by word of mouth: things they say, tweets about opinions they have, books they read, music and food preferences, and more importantly to me their overall character&#8230; the way that they live life.</p>
<p><strong>Reach out&#8230; go to them</strong>&#8230;I see a HUGE opportunity here to bypass all the awkwardness of social boundaries like what do I wear, how do I act, who can I go with so that I&#8217;m not alone, suppose I don&#8217;t know anyone there&#8230; all the insecurities that can paralyze people in fear. I believe a lot of these concerns have crossed peoples minds at some time or another and driven them to the conclusion that going out into some social situations is just too &#8216;fake&#8221; as many people try to dress and impress for that first impression.  Once people listen to others on Twitter, they get to know them before they go out in public places. Twitter is great for setting up a spontaneous get-together: meet for lunch, go to a movie, games at Lou&#8217;s&#8230; fear of rejection by asking out on a formal date is bypassed by &#8220;I&#8217;m going to &#8212;&#8212; wanna come?&#8221;.</p>
<p>I think that Twitter allows people to be honest and transparent in a way that frees a person from so much fear and rejection, and allows for true fellowship to take place.  In my experience I have developed a group of people that I care for like family.  When they hurt or need help, I am quick to encourage. When they celebrate something good, so do we all. That is BIBLICAL in my eyes.</p>
<p>Additional <strong>WITNESSING opportunities </strong>as postings demonstrate how a Christian lives in real life. Suddenly a non-believer&#8217;s aversion to anything Christian as being judgmental and hypocritical is challenged by the fact that there are several postings a day of how professing Christians are &#8216;walking the talk&#8217;.  That all Christians are not condescending and condemning. That Christians, like any other person, are in process. We are ALL on a journey; and Twitter can help us take it side by side!</p>
<p><strong>DARE&#8212;-Accountability </strong>&#8211; another benefit of the Twitter community is the fact that we can help each other remain accountable. Did you get that math homework done Jon? We essentially &#8220;spur one another on&#8221; &#8212; another Biblical principle I see that is assisted through using Twitter.  We can <strong>challenge</strong> each other to examine our opinions and how those line up with the truth that we value.</p>
<p><strong>SHARE</strong>&#8212;-By <strong>sharing</strong> what we experience, know, feel, enjoy, dislike, value and detest, we are opening ourselves up to the possiblities of helping each other,</p>
<p><strong>CARE</strong> &#8211; encouraging and being encouraged,</p>
<p><strong> PRAYER</strong> -praying for each other, giving advise and practical aid in specific areas that can be stated very specifically and in-the-moment.  For example, &#8220;I am having a problem with trying to get my pictures off of the digital camera. Can someone help?&#8221; OR &#8220;My sister went into early labor, please pray&#8221; OR &#8220;I&#8217;m going to South Bend for the weekend. Where&#8217;s a good restaurant to try?&#8221;</p>
<p>For the most part Twitter is Public (there are privacy settings and direct messaging that can be just one on one) so many people can contribute to a conversation about when and where to meet, advice on problem-solving, recommendations on resources, when one person posts a prayer request or a statement about being ill or something, it is fantastic to see the flurry of posts that respond.</p>
<p>People do listen. People do care. Every person matters. Twitter helps communicate all of that.</p>
<p>Looking at INNOVATION as bringing creativity to bear against solving a problem, then Twitter is a very valuable tool in the realm of innovation.</p>
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		<title>Shadows Along the Way</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 05:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ellen5e</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I ponder about the depression that so oft&#8217; besets the person with chronic pain. It is a darkness that seems consuming &#8230; inescapable &#8230; threatening to swallow us up in its blackness of uncaring loneliness. To be in the shadows is to have all the joy sucked out of every aspect of my life. It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:100%;"></span><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/RzqPXj5x-DI/AAAAAAAAACI/f_QNAJAb6GA/s1600-h/TreeShadowPath.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5132572360279455794" style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 101px; height: 155px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ZCGov86CI6s/RzqPXj5x-DI/AAAAAAAAACI/f_QNAJAb6GA/s200/TreeShadowPath.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a>I ponder about the depression that so oft&#8217; besets the person with chronic pain.  It is a darkness that seems consuming &#8230; inescapable &#8230; threatening to swallow us up in its blackness of uncaring loneliness.</p>
<p>To be in the shadows is to have all the joy sucked out of every aspect of my life.  It is the fear of the unknown.  The realization that I can&#8217;t stay in this place.  It is drudgery, <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">bleakness</span> and hopelessness.  Or is it???</p>
<p>You see&#8230; I believe that the shadow can be seen in another way.  As I acknowledge the shadow for that which it truly is, I needn&#8217;t fear.  For a shadow is simply a result of a light shining beyond an obstacle.  It is not solid and cannot hurt me.  It has no course of its own.  No ill intent against me personally.  It simply exists to testify that there is a great light nearby.  It is the light that has the power; not the shadow.</p>
<p>Walking down the pathway of my life and journey through pain, I experience the shadows of depression stretching toward me from time to time.  However, if I remember the insight above I can overcome the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">despair</span> of the shadows and realize the hope that is there.</p>
<p>For, if the shadow is reaching toward me, and I face it, I know that I am heading in the Light direction. The darker that the shadow appears, the more intense is the light that forms it.<br />
My friend, I pray that you remember these words and draw upon the encouragement that is intended to help you as we travel this path together.  Experience the joy as we draw closer to the light!</p>
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		<title>YOU Can Make a Difference</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 22:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ellen5e</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I embark on a mission with a passion I would like to personally invite you along on this journey. You can help others by simply posting your story. What happened to cause you the pain that you now suffer? What are your greatest challenges? What tools and strengths have you developed so far? Please [...]]]></description>
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<span style="font-family:arial;">As I embark on a mission with a passion I would like to personally invite you along on this journey.  You can help others by simply posting your story.  What happened to cause  you the pain that you now suffer?  What are your greatest challenges?  What tools and strengths have you developed so far? </span> <span style="font-family:arial;">Please take part in this page.  As what you have learned and are experiencing helps everyone as we share and care.</span> <span style="font-family:arial;">Blessings and comfort to you Friend.</span></p>
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