I want to be clear… stereotyping of groups of people in such a way as to imply that “ALL of the group AREÂ this” is commonly seen as wrong. After all,Â every individual is their own person and no group of people are ALL the same… groups are made up of individuals.
For the sake of order and efficiency in our lives we do tend to catagorize things andÂ classifyÂ people into generalized groups based on some kind of common trait. InsideÂ those groupsÂ there may be subdivisions within that classificationÂ and maybe subsets of those. ThereÂ may be such great difference discovered that an entirely different group is created. Labelling is an ongoing process as we learn more and maybe even redefine our criteria for a group.
Like manyÂ people, I order, categorize and label to quickly identify and efficiently use my time. I also use themÂ for gaining quicker understanding. My groups or labels or terms may not necessarily agree with someone else’s who may have a different understanding or judgment of where something fits.
Since I have spent a good deal of time lately in conversation with a number of people who do not think the same way I doÂ (in fact some in direct opposition to as I do) I thought this would be a good time to lay down a basis of better understanding.
THIS is what I mean when I use these terms: #Atheist (they call themselves this -no God) Â #AngryÂ or #MadÂ (predominantly displays anger, bitterness and criticism of others) #God-hater (displays hatefulness toward God, Jesus, Bible, and Christians) These terms defined by the everyday common understanding of the words: #Illogical or #Unreasonable (not following logic, reason) #Lie (not #True, contrary to the truth, facts, or nature of something)Â #Wrong (may be #mistaken, but definitely not #right which I use God’s ultimate standard as well as general humane definitions) #Bible (The Word of God, originatedÂ by God and recorded by divinely chosen men for benefit of mankind’s understanding God, truth, love, wisdom and how to live good and upright lives), #God (God as revealed in the #Bible, God of Abraham,Isaac & Jacob, Yahweh, “I Am,” Alpha & Omega, Everlasting Father, Almighty, Sovereign, Eternal, Omniscient, Creator of the universe and all that is in it, Sovereign, Provider, Sustainer, HOLY = pure good, love, truth, righteousness).
Being a Christian I do notÂ pretend to know all the various forms of atheism and their subtle differences. As a Christian the foundation of my faith and life is Jesus Christ, truth and love. Love God and love others as myself. Â Contrary to the accusers of me on twitter, I do not judge that a person is EVIL because they believe differently than I do. Â Belief is an individual choice.
However, if anyone, believer or not, shows contempt for others and lies about truth I am compelled to speak against that badÂ behavior. That is admonishment — confronting lies with truth, wrong doing with righteousness.
It is not an easy thing to do. It is not a fun thing to do. But it is the RIGHT and LOVING thing to do. Depending on the degree of harm being done and whether I believe the person is even receptive to or respectful of the dignity and direction of truth, I mayÂ try to speakÂ truth that exposes the wrong in hopes that misunderstandings are corrected and bad behaviors cease. All of us make mistakes. I would hope that someone else would do the same for me.
Like the wisdom of scripture states, there are those who have hardened hearts, deaf ears and are blinded to truth and righteousness. At those times when it is clear that the perpetrator has no desire to truthfully analyze or correct, there is no point in preceding. Don’t cast pearls before swine. Leave themÂ with theirÂ depraved mind. Kick the dust off your sandals and walk on.
LIVING A GOOD LIFE IS SO MUCH MORE ENJOYABLE WITH OTHERS
Like most people, I enjoy hanging out with people that do the same things I like to do or generally believe the same things I do. Our experiences shared with our family and friends are the real memory makers that we get to enjoy over and again.
However, I also have great friendshipsÂ “outside of my circles” where I am getting to know people I would not have even met in a sequesteredÂ life. The most profound discoveries of new friends happens as I engage in my online excursions. Social media after all is social.
I enjoy learning of various world-views from people that are not normally in my social circles. It is quite invigoratingÂ to engage in conversations with these new friends; growing inÂ understanding of other people and ideas that I previously didn’t know. “Come let us REASON together,” is a welcome invitation to learn from one another and examine things together.
The experiencesÂ that I have with people helps in me to understand so very much more than I did before I had the blessing of knowing them. Even those who have been unpleasant to me have taught me valuable lessons in human behavior and communication. God is so very good. He allows us to grow in truth, love and wisdom as we encounter peopleÂ who do not employ them. They demonstrate for us the consequences we have been told in the Bible will befall the liars, selfish, andÂ foolish . . .without us actually having taken that particular path ourselves.Â Likewise, others can learn from our shortcomings when we share them transparently. ALL of us make mistakes. ALL of us can learn from those mistakes and help one another not to repeat them. Iron sharpens iron.
In closing, I believe that labels are just labels. They are not meant to define a person. They are just one way of quickly identifying what is same or different, or to point to a place. I believeÂ that making statements about the characteristics of a group does not mean that it always applies, all the time, to all the individuals of the group. General statements about groups of people are that . . . generally speaking . . . for the most part.
The problem that I see with those who stereo-type is that they misuse labels. They proclaim that ALL people of this certain group are ALWAYS ________ (insert their claim). THAT in my opinion is the key difference between labeling and the wrongness of stereo-typing . . . having the label defining the person places one’s judgment of a person over who that person actually may be.
What do you think about this topic? I welcome your comments.