Hoosiers: Where’s the LOVE?

IN: Why the heartbreak?
IN: Why the heartbreak?

WHERE’S THE LOVE?

I weep for ALL the people. In reference to the new RFRA (Religious Freedom Restoration Act), our Hoosier Indiana home is under vicious attack! I especially am concerned for our children who are witnessing such nonsense. There are so called adults throwing temper tantrums to gain attention for themselves at the cost of civility, proper respect and the peaceful accord of a loving community at large. There are so many people causing discord and strife while demanding others be more loving. It’s ugliness! It’s divisive, unloving and flat-out wrong!

God’s law (acknowledged to supersede all man-made others)

it’s simple…LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS YOURSELF.

14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Galatians 5:14 (NASB)

It doesn’t say agree with one another or be exactly like one another, but it does say LOVE one another.

Sadly, “Love” is not what I am seeing now, all over the media, with signs of hate and personal attacks on the civic & business leaders who sacrifice their time to serve us. This is not inclusive and loving but divisive and goes against religious freedoms for all. Name-calling, motivation-assigning and group profiling is uncivilized and shameful.

•Please don’t shame yourself or your particular cause or organization. This is not about “us” vs. “them”. This applies to us ALL!

•Please stop spraying the mace of malice in an emotionally charged crowd—people are hurting people with swords of words that cut deeply.

•Please, look at your own heart…the only person’s you can really know…and ask yourself: am I being loving?

•If I were mistaken or misunderstood, how would I want someone to treat me?

What is the right way to behave? Not just for yourself, but in regard to others? Am I open to hearing the others concerns and point of view.
Then do that. Do the next, right thing.

KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW RATHER THAN PRESUME TO KNOW

I cannot know any other persons motives. So I would be foolish to state that “so-and-so is doing this because …”. Yet there are organizational leaders who are doing just that. Some people are loudly declaring that the lawmakers of this state have passed a law that promotes discrimination against people. Yet I don’t read that in the law itself. So who am I to trust: what people say that it says, or what it actually says?

I can’t righteously say that RFRA is an anti-gay law anymore than I can proclaim it is an anti-toddler law. I can only go by what I see. I see a law, which as it’s name says, promotes religious freedom for all people… applied equally to all people is NOT discriminatory.

As I read it; this law protects us from government forcing us to violate our religious convictions (as long as they do not violate established authoritative laws or morals which limit their expression or exercise). I want that freedom for me and I want that for others. Who doesn’t? And why not?

COMMON SENSE

I would not want my Jewish friend to be forced to sell non-kosher food so that the preference (not a “right”) of every ham sandwich eater is not violated.
Does one man’s preferences supersede another person’s strong moral or religious convictions? We are speaking of living in harmony here, right?  Then, it seems logical that out of respect and love, one could either choose something else in accord or take their business elsewhere. Why would I want to force anyone to serve me? That’s like coercing someone into telling them you that they really like you and what you are doing when they don’t. Using threats and extorting behaviors; that’s manipulative oppression. How is that respectful or loving?

# What gain is there in making a loud scene within his deli, calling him a discriminatory bigot, or threatening to sue him in order to force him into acting otherwise?
# Is an attack on his personally held convictions while asking him to respect yours not self-defeating?
# Should his menu be repealed because it doesn’t include ham? Or in the same vain, should all restaurants be forced to serve the same items? Goodbye making decision between Italian vs. Chinese atmosphere and cuisine; a burger joint vs. formal top-chef. That might be viewed as discriminatory.

# Is it reasonable to hold a rally publicly declaring that this deli man has some kind of ill-intent toward all ham-eating people?

# Is it right that one proclaim what another person’s intents are when they are declaring something totally different? Who am I going to believe: the person that had the thoughts and intentions or the other who “thinks” they know?

# Is it loving or even wise to inflame emotions against large classes of people, businesses or states who have never even had any experience with you; let alone for you to presume that they will treat you poorly?

# Is it right to boycott an entire state filled with places that would happily sell you your ham sandwich had you just asked them?

JUDGEMENT: Judge for yourself.
At this time I have been grieved to read many remarks from people that classify ALL Christians as unloving or un-Christ-like. These same people do not generally demonstrate a Christ-centered faith but use His name or scripture (often out of context) for self-gain.

Ironically these who decry that other people are unloving have themselves used base language and personal attacks while working to incite strong emotional responses making it look on the surface as though some grievous injustice is occurring.
Emotionally charged reactions based on perception generally insure that a bad problem will get worse. Alternatively, stripping away the emotional perceptions to analyze the truth and carefully considering the other point of view is a much better way to approach a problem to get to a solution. Either we are a part of the problem or we are working to solve the problem.

PRAYERS FOR PEOPLE

I have been praying for our Governor Mike Pence who himself is being persecuted for taking a stand on what he and our state legislators believe is right and in the best interest of the people of Indiana. I pray for public servants, civic leaders, general citizens who are scurrying about as a result of emotionally charged threats against the businesses and livelihood of our communities. I am praying for a particular Jewish friend Annette Siegel Gross who is a well-known PFLAG leader who is passionately voicing valid concerns, but is doing so with personal attacks on our elected leaders in an unflattering if not disrespectful manner. Additionally, I know that God is grieved when those proclaiming to live according to God’s principles treat others with disdain and malice instead of loving consideration. Golden rule here, people. I pray for those who are fighting to gain better standing but are doing so in the wrong way. I hate seeing people rejoice in the fact that this turmoil is causing injury. I have actually read peoples’ statements that they are happy about this turmoil happening at the perfect time to do the most damage via the court of public opinion. Just as people are about to come into our city for the Final Four basketball tournament which will draw further attention to the situation. I pray for ALL of us who call this home. I pray that TRUTH and LOVE win over perception and self-serving agendas.

I am thankful to live in a time and place where freedom of speech and assembly is valued. I also am saddened by some of the disrespect shown in language, signage and threats. As the world is judging how Indiana is based on the images and perceptions that are portrayed through the media, I pray that the power of LOVE brings forth peace and charity that can once again unite us as neighbors willing to live and serve alongside one another to make this place one we can be proud to call home.

NO JUDGEMENT! NO DISCRIMINATION!
God is our judge, not man. Yet, God did not create us as robots. We have a conscience and innate sense of right and wrong. He intends for us to use that. We stand up against what is wrong and take a stand for what is right! True, loving brothers, friends, and concerned citizens will point out error so that correction may prevent or mitigate dire consequences. God’s Word does tell us to use wisdom, discernment, and exercise judgement in both how we act and why.

The person who declares that there is no god, has just made a “judgement”. Even a five year old uses “discrimination” when he decides that he likes ice cream better than cake. Is either the atheist or the five year old deserving of my disrespect because of their personal beliefs or choices? I think not. I still view both of them as a fellow human being; a soul deserving of my regard.

I am judgemental at times. I judge that child abuse is evil. I judge that it is deadly to stand in the middle of I-70 in the middle of rush hour traffic. I judge that choosing to act wrongly will bring about consequences that can be avoided if I act righteously.
I am also discriminatory at times: I chose this pink blouse over the blue one. I prefer the salmon to the steak for dinner. I place my precious china on display while keeping the paper plates in the cupboard. I think that my right to consume alcoholic beverages and my right to drive an automobile with my drivers license are both outweighed by the communities need for me to not drive while impaired.

Yes, I make judgements and I discriminate, so how does that make me evil? The fact that I place my faith in God and His word as a guide in basing those judgements and preferences makes those decisions less about me and more about God. Since I make mistakes and God never does, I believe I do well to live according to His statutes. Still, I may make mistakes in judgement or discrimination? I for one would like someone to point out the error of my ways before they start building a gallows upon which to hang me in ignorance.

Many angry constituents opposed to the RFRA are claiming that there is “NO JUDGEMENT IN LOVE” or “Jesus never Discriminates”. However that is not true according to the totality of God’s Word. In fact it would be extremely unloving and inconsiderate not to judge right from wrong, good from better when it comes to considering our relationships with God or one another. There would be absolutely no justice without judgement, nor any love without forgiveness.

WHO CAN TELL OTHERS WHO THEY CAN LOVE

Now, as far as me telling you who you can and cannot love…that is not my place. I believe every person has the God-given choice to love who they will. Neither should man foolishly try to legislate emotions.

I have many friends and acquaintances that have different sexual orientations or attractions than I do. As their friend they know what I believe and feel and vice versa. On some thing’s we agree, others we do not. But our love for one another is not jeopardized by how I treat them because I treat them the same way I would like to be treated. They don’t go out of their way to make me uncomfortable or disrespected and vice versa. As friends we communicate in genuine love and concern for the other. As friends we sometimes hurt each other and can call each other out on grievances in a kind way. As a neighbor, I CARE about how others treat each other. As a loving friend I do all I can to see to eat that all people are treated with humanity and justice.

ALL of us are human and make mistakes. Rarely (thank God) are the mistakes fatal. Always there is something that can be learned as a result. So many needless mistakes are based on a misunderstanding, acting or speaking out in error.
The wisdom of asking questions to get a better understanding of what doesn’t appear to make sense is something I like to employ in gaining a better understanding of things, people and situations. Therefore, will you kindly help me grow in understanding by telling me what you think about this post?
I just want LOVE for everyone. I want people to STOP hurting each other and dividing our community rather than uniting in purpose of making this a better place for all of us to live.  Thanks for being a friend.

Shining Light on Diseases: How’s Your Vitamin D?

Girl-Holding-the-Sun-Sunrise__32633-480x320I recently found out after a blood test that I am very low in Vitamin D. The doctor told me to take a supplement of Vitamin D3 — like 4 times the dose I was already taking! Wow! I knew that I am a gal that likes my sunshine and that Vitamin D is made by our bodies utilizing sunshine. Therefore, the winter months, having less sunshine because the hours of daylight are less, as well as the fact that I usually don’t spend a lot of time outside in my shorts outside in sub-freezing temperatures, would naturally mean a decreased amount of Vitamin D in me.

What I DIDN’T know was just how very many problems can stem from not having a sufficient amount of Vitamin D in our body. I learned a LOT by doing a little research on Vitamin D online. The most interesting aspect of it all is that Vitamin D is NOT a vitamin . . . it was misnamed . . . it is actually a hormone and therefore very important in the regulation of body function. Additionally, Cholesterol is needed by our skins production of vitamin D as it reacts with sunlight. When vitamin D levels are low the body will naturally make more cholesterol to be available for conversion to the needed D.  WOW! What a wake-up call.  So the doctor finds that my cholesterol level is high, so he prescribes statin drugs which reduce the cholesterol and my vitamin D level goes down and then all these problems get even worse. Wow! Additionally, not all Vitamin D supplements are the same.  I mean to say, Vitamin D3 is the proper form for us humans to take. When Vitamin D was first studied and named it was done so with testing on rats which are nocturnal mammals. Since they don’t produce the vitamin D with the help of sunshine like we do, it was believed that Vitamin D was obtained solely by diet; thus the term Vitamin… as in, coming from a source outside the body.

Then too there is the fact that we humans have different skin pigmentation and live in different climates. Those of us who live in areas that experience Winter season with fewer daylight hours and cold temps are obviously not going to have the same Vitamin D levels as someone who lives close to the earth’s equator and temperatures conducive to more time spent outdoors in sunshine. On the contrary, our lifestyles of less time outdoors and more times inside of buildings under florescent lights and in front of computers does nothing to bolster our stores of HORMONE D.

I came upon this fabulous wealth of information by Stasha Gom­i­nak, M.D (a neurologist at Tyler, TX) when I listened to a lecture she gave on Sleep, Chronic Pain and Hormone D. Here is a video Dr. Stasha Gominak Discusses Sleep & Vitamin D (all 5 parts). Listening to all of the video took about an hour and a quarter but it was subdivided into five parts so one could watch or refer to one section at a time if that were easier. I watched it as a whole as well as took note of the power point slides that she gave listing resources and references. This was a professionally done lecture which was communicated in such a way that a layperson could understand. My understanding by what she said during the talk, this was given to a group of caregivers and not just doctors. Therefore it is not full of medical jargon that is beyond a person’s comprehension. Rather it is a very logical account of how HORMONE D is behind so many health problems that many people have today.  I think it is important to mention that she points out the pioneering work done by  Dr. Walter Stumpf and the name “soltriol ” that he coined for this important biological hormone.

In doing more reading and research I found it absolutely fascinating that D3 has an important role throughout various functions in the body. There are receptors in the heart, the brain, the pancreas, the gut, muscles, etc. There is a direct correlation between insufficient D3 and several diseases: neurological dysfunction, migraines, sleep disturbances and quality, pain perception, chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, migraines, acid reflux, diabetes, irritable bowel disorder, heart issues, high cholesterol and high blood pressure, etc. Man!

This all is supported by my own personal experiences. Chronic Fatigue Immune Dysfunction Syndrome came first, then Insulin Resistance, then Fibromyalgia, acid reflux (I blame that on the meds),migraines started after an auto accident, in 2009 I developed Foreign Accent Syndrome, then my cholesterol was too high. Finally, I had neurological abnormalities after being put onto a statin drug. I KNOW it was as a result of being on a statin drug that I suffered a faux heart-attack and then sever muscle weakness to the point of not being able to stand up or walk. Sure enough, after being off of the statin and employing Physical Therapy, I got better within about three weeks. THEN, I discovered several people (including a parent) that had similar horror stories from being on a statin drug. Then I did research online and saw hundreds of similar complaints. There were even commercials on television stating that there was a class action suit whereby statins were associated with causing people to become diabetic, suffer muscle weakness, heart problems, etc.  I declared “NO more statin drugs for me,” I will use fish oil or krill oil, but absolutely refuse to take that detrimental medication ever again.

Which brings us up to today, I started 2014 with a ten day hellish migraine that wouldn’t go away. Now it’s cluster headaches. Putting together what I have just learned as being the vast number of receptors in our body that NEED vitamin D3 and the fact that I am deficient in it now makes sense. So I have increased my intake of D3 and am going to monitor that with periodic blood tests. Additionally, I’ve learned that Magnesium plays an important role in helping to reduce headaches as does vitamin B.

I am much more informed on the physiology of my body when it comes to Hormone D (soltriol). It explains why I often crave time in the sun and suffer more in the winter. Perhaps a good long tropical vacation is in order.

Let me also recommend Dr. Stasha Gominak’s blog about this subject to you at Vitamin D Hormone: Sleep, Chronic Pain and Headaches.  I personally am excited to have found this information and am sharing it with my doctors and friends. Experience is an excellent teacher and mine is saying to me, “we may just be onto something here; something that can restore health and eliminate disease! I think the overuse of statin drugs is going to do more harm than good unless people see the importance of the cholesterol / Hormone D balance in our bodies.

NOTE: I am NOT a doctor and hold no medical degree. The information contained here is from my own personal observation and experience. It is intended to simply offer my opinions and point to the opinions of others. If you are having any medical concerns, please seek the care of your physician. Although I have stated my dislike for certain classes of medications, one should follow the instructions of their physician along with their own personal convictions. These are intended to point you to some resources and give you a reason to think about your plan of care and overall health. God bless you on your journey to achieving a better state of health.

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO INVESTIGATE THIS FOR YOURSELF.  I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED AND LEARNED ABOUT THIS TOPIC BY SIMPLY LEAVING A COMMENT AND IF WORTHY IN YOUR EYES SHARING IT WITH OTHERS. I believe this has news can have great impact in the world for healthier living.

Hope is Springing Forth for Baby Jonah

Here is an update on Baby Jonah still fighting  against so many health trials. If you have not been one of those regularly following the story of baby Jonah and the Silverberg family, you can just search on this site for “baby Jonah” and you can read all that the Lord is doing and the specific prayers that are ongoing as well as those that have been answered in mighty ways.

As of April 5th…2011

Dear Praying Family,
We are ever so greatful to you all for your prayers for us and our baby.
We went thru some dark days, as it looked again that we would lose Jonah,
but God has answered our prayers once again.
Jonah is still running a fever, but is mildly improving.
There is talk of possibly releasing him to a rehab hospital in Westchester,
in possibly as little as a month, or as long as 6 months.
We look forward to this, yet the challenge of having Jonah an hour away, instead of a few minutes
is one we have no idea how to work out logistically with considerations of the entire families needs.
We are still completely on our own in regards to staying w/ Jonah at the hospital and caring for our
other 3 children.
This has been a most difficult and challenging time in our lives.
The Lord has supplied us w/ strength, although at times it seems we are not able to rise to the callenges,
but God is with us.
Thank you so much for your continued prayers for Jonah’s recovery and for our family.
Jonah is 14 weeks old today. He is still in ICU.
In Christ’s love,
Marty for Val Silverberg